https://new.cupaobaidou.com/tag/%E7%BD%91%E7%BB%9C/Recent content in 网络 on 醋泡白豆Hugozh-CNFri, 26 Jan 2024 19:46:42 +0800https://new.cupaobaidou.com/archives/124/Mon, 15 May 2023 11:11:00 +0800https://new.cupaobaidou.com/archives/124/<section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1px; padding: 0px 10px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-align: justify; visibility: visible;"><section style="text-align: unset; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">又是周一，大家晚上好！</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; text-align: center; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">?一周复盘</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">这周状态还不错！</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">工作量适中，配合着试用吕哥的 iWatch ，运动量达标，虽然还是很胖。周末去看脱口秀，去年的压场帅哥今年更帅了，身材也更好了，健美「羞辱」散懒，都不好意思和帅哥并排走，还是加强锻炼。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">这周去读书会分享了《Show your work》这本书，配合自己的实践，线下「开源」了一次自己，还使用了「白豆」这个网名，不过分享前只演练三次，时间安排有问题。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">认识了新的朋友，通过对话，梳理了自己的想法感受，「说」出来的过程中，又好像有其他通路被连接，有了更多灵感，神奇！</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">今早看到耗子叔（左耳朵耗子）因心梗去世的消息，恍惚了好一会。经常看他的博客，最近也正在学他的专栏，一个没有见过面的人，因为他的分享，好像一位特别亲近的朋友走了。感谢他的分享R.I.P.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: rgb(4, 4, 23); box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="color: rgb(4, 4, 23); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__0">用我 notion 文档中 16 个问题来复盘：</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239); box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">1.If I had 50M in the bank, how would my day-to-day change?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">一周至少有三天时间住不同地方的酒店，换新的环境。不会辞职，但会更大胆自由安排上班时间。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">2.How will being anxious about this serve me?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">焦虑改进不了任何方面，所以尽量不焦虑。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">3.Do I really need to answer this text or email right now?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">我的即时回复太多了，一天至少有三次以上，非必要，按照自己节奏回复。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">4.Am I really happy? Or am I just really comfortable?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">开心，且不在舒适圈。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">5.Am I really trying my best or am I just telling myself l am?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">差还远，思绪不清晰，行动不迅速，目标不明确。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">6.What is it that I can think of，read，watch，listen and talk about for hours on end without tiring of it?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">大饼、个人思维形象化、AI</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">7.If i had to describe who I wanted to be in 3 words what would those words be?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">真诚、健硕地帅、他人依靠</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">8.What would this look like if it was fun?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">用不同类型的例子都能形容，能用视觉化的图来表现。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">9.What would it take to snap me out of my bad mood immediately?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">北京春天的阳光和舒爽的凉风。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">10.What's the first thing you think of when you wake up most days?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">猫搁哪？高原米过来</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">11.How do I want my life be different in one year?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">瘦下来，力量感更强。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">12.Is this project making me a better person?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">目前做的都让我变成一个更好的人。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">13.Am I doing this for myself or because someone？</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">自己。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">14.Am I doing/not doing this out of fear?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">也有对不去做这些事情所导致后果的恐惧。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">15.What are you in love with? Is that what/who you want to be in love with?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">想通事情、让身边人更好、遍历更多。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 156, 239);box-sizing: border-box;">16.Would my 15 year old self think I'm the coolest?</span></em></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">能再勇敢点去更快犯错犯蠢就更 cool 了。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 4px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><section style="text-align: unset;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">?白豆学到小技巧</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">opencat 客户端， 使用 chatgpt api 定制化问答场景，拓展苹果键盘。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">书译 app ，epub 格式的各国语言电子书都能翻译+自动排版，二十万字 6 元。</p></section><section style="text-align: unset;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">?白在读书</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(173, 46, 46);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="color: rgb(173, 46, 46); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__1">《Show your work》</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">重读，五星，非常推荐。<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">你不必成为大师才能分享自己的感受，网络时代，只要实践有所感触就能分享，有时小白的分享要比大牛对特定的人帮助更大，小白没有知识的诅咒。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">Show your work ，即展示你一段时间注意力投射的事物，也是展示你是什么样的人，某种程度上，算是「开源」自己。真诚的「开源」，断掉了自己用信息差「唬人」来获利的路径，不可能装银行行长的儿子去取世界首富的女儿，不可成为孙割。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">但<a target="_blank" href="http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MzI2OTIxMTg1Nw==&amp;mid=2247483909&amp;idx=1&amp;sn=56acfc178a57548300b4ff7e13edc040&amp;chksm=eae283bbdd950aad6b5be9c6f23e79ce167153e8c2b89c045564ad3b435decc699b44da9a6f6&amp;scene=21#wechat_redirect" textvalue="真诚的「开源」能够让自己快速获得反馈" linktype="text" imgurl="" imgdata="null" data-itemshowtype="0" tab="innerlink" data-linktype="2">真诚的「开源」能够让自己快速获得反馈</a>，改进错误，迭代自己。同时也更能给自己逐步积累「信任资本」。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">我用写作的方式来开源自己，所以写作的好处也都是 show my work 的好处。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(173, 46, 46);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="color: rgb(173, 46, 46); 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visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">最近进入了“基本上不会无聊、对生活大部分都是热爱”的状态，今天简单用写作的方式探索一下自己进入这种状态的原因。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center; justify-content: center; margin: 10px 0% 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; height: auto; margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="text-align: right; 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visibility: visible;"><section style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 0%; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 10px; height: 10px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; border-width: 0px; border-radius: 117px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); background-color: rgb(247, 206, 42); box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="display: inline-block; width: 10px; height: 10px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; border-width: 0px; border-radius: 117px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); background-color: rgb(247, 206, 42); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__1"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">不顺心的事情总会发生，要多条腿走路。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">今年开始写日志，在notion中做了个模板，日志模板由三个问题组成：</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">你今天都干了啥？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">你开始做你想做的事情了吗，如果没有，你打算什么时候开始？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">你今天开心的三件事情是什么？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;padding-right: 0.5em;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;border-width: 0.3em;border-style: solid;border-color: white;box-shadow: rgb(102, 102, 102) 0.2em 0.2em 0.5em;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;height: auto !important;"><img data-ratio="0.5314815" data-w="1080" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; height: auto !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 634px !important;" data-type="png" data-original-style="vertical-align: middle;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;" data-index="2" src="https://new.cupaobaidou.com/usr/uploads/2024/01/877310242.png" class="" _width="677px" crossorigin="anonymous" alt="Image" data-fail="0"></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">即使某一天过得不是很好，写完第三项，都有注入点积极的能量。一个健康的身体，一个稳定的工作，一些好朋友和家人，这些龙虾教授说你没必要全部都有，但至少要有几项。写日志的时候，发现这些自己目前竟然都是有的。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">今年因为疫情，大概率是要就地过年了。不能回家见家人，确实会让人有点沮丧，有多条腿走路的好处就是可以用其他方面的顺遂来对冲这种沮丧。留京过年也让我有时间能和同在北京的朋友过节约个饭，能够省去路途上的时间收拾一下房间，多尝试几个游戏。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">生活一方面受挫，要有其他方面的支援。所有方面同时坍塌，倒霉事都发生在同一天的概率要很小。</p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center;justify-content: center;margin: 10px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: right;margin: 0px 0%;justify-content: flex-end;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 10px;height: 10px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 117px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(119, 95, 255);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="display: inline-block; width: 10px; height: 10px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; border-width: 0px; border-radius: 117px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); background-color: rgb(119, 95, 255); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__2"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;margin: 0px 0%;justify-content: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 10px;height: 10px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 117px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(247, 206, 42);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="display: inline-block; width: 10px; height: 10px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; border-width: 0px; border-radius: 117px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); background-color: rgb(247, 206, 42); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__3"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">和世界建立更多的链接。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">和越多的人和事物建立链接，所谓生活对我来说越有意义。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">能够活在自己的世界中也是幸福的，比如说醉心于解题的数学家们。但生活中，人有情绪波动，有了新想法想要有人分享的时刻，比如说科比的退役战要和打球的朋友一起看才尽兴，得知两年前的今天科比去世的消息要和人一起缅怀。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">作为社会性动物的我，拥有着向同伴分享、被看到的欲望，希望世界能因自己的存在产生一点点不同。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">上学时候做“英课”，英语课上总要刻意“表现一下存在感”；大学的时候做导游领队，大巴车引擎声开始的时候没有出现在车上为大家解决问题， 就有可能炸团；去年开始写公众号，文字被朋友、网友看到， 也是和世界进行了交互，产生了一点点不同。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center;justify-content: center;margin: 10px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: right;margin: 0px 0%;justify-content: flex-end;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 10px;height: 10px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 117px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(119, 95, 255);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="display: inline-block; width: 10px; height: 10px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; border-width: 0px; border-radius: 117px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); background-color: rgb(119, 95, 255); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__4"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;margin: 0px 0%;justify-content: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 10px;height: 10px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 117px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(247, 206, 42);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="display: inline-block; width: 10px; height: 10px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; border-width: 0px; border-radius: 117px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); background-color: rgb(247, 206, 42); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__5"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">接收新的信息，让自己被活水冲刷。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">保持了日均一本书的习惯，没有进行刻意的规划和限制，从发光群中码来的书第二天就可能阅读上了。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">戒断了个人独处时间娱乐性质视频的行为，基本上会腾出一小时时间来获取新信息。不似娱乐新闻来回发生的事件，装订成册，注入了作者心力的书，至少能带来一点的信息增量，有时候走运了，还能获得一大箩筐。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">多条腿更平稳走路，平稳迈过坑坑挖挖的小道；和世界建立更多的链接，让一切穿过我；再被新的信息冲刷，大脑清爽一下。</p></section></section>https://new.cupaobaidou.com/archives/513/Mon, 13 Sep 2021 21:21:00 +0800https://new.cupaobaidou.com/archives/513/<section style="line-height: 2; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-align: justify; visibility: visible;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">关键词：数字时代的自我暴露</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__0"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section><section style="width: 3em; border-top: 2px solid rgb(127, 161, 191); display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; padding-left: 5px; padding-right: 5px; font-size: 23px; box-sizing: border-box; min-width: 1.2em !important; visibility: visible;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">01</p></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="width: 3em; border-top: 2px solid rgb(127, 161, 191); display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section><section style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__1"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">数字时代没有三顾茅庐，自我暴露可能会有更多的奇遇。<br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">对于笔者这样出生在90年代末的人来说，正式接入互联网不过十年的时间。最开始是在QQ空间上上伤春悲秋，聚众非主流，逐渐接入微博、知乎等各种平台。</p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">越来越多的人从网络世界的旁观者转变为参与者。笔者开始上网的前期是个极度内向者，在现实生活中非常讨厌写作文， 更别说在网络上的再创作些什么了。接入网络的主要活动是porn网站、网络游戏和其他娱乐。</p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">公众号时代，有人写文来获取商业收益，有人单纯记录生活想法。短视频时代，游离在互联网之外的多数人，笔者的弟弟妹妹奶奶叔叔阿姨都接入抖音快手。抱脸虫的时代。</p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__2"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section><section style="width: 3em; border-top: 2px solid rgb(127, 161, 191); display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; padding-left: 5px; padding-right: 5px; font-size: 23px; box-sizing: border-box; min-width: 1.2em !important; visibility: visible;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">02</p></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="width: 3em; border-top: 2px solid rgb(127, 161, 191); display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section><section style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__3"><section style="visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">娱乐至死的时代网络冲浪要适度是当然，在此之外，回顾一下今天要聊的主题：<strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">数字时代的自我暴露。</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">亲密关系的最开始的一个环节可以称之为相互暴露，素不相识或者平时的点头之交要建立更加深入的关系，必然是在某个时机，某一方面开始吐露更加隐秘的信息，如果得到的反馈是正向的，就会进一步交流。一但双方中一人开始回避，升华的革命友谊就会戛然而至。</p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">网络时代之前，这种契机只存在自己和身边的人，或者自己对纸媒电视等渠道宣传的明星产生单方面的相思。数字时代则完全不同，每个人都可以建立起自己的频道——朋友圈、微博、短视频、播客等一系列的数字个人建设。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">《主权个人》笔者还未读完，但其中一个观点是说数字时代，每个独立的个体都有机会成为的一个个分布式的节点。在数字世界中会更加容易树立自己的品牌，找到趣味相投的人。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">不谈数字世界中的个人品牌建设，在数字时代中的自我暴露对现实自我的信任建设有促进作用。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">网上有个的段子，说是一个男生在朋友的推荐下加了一个妹子的微信，之后抱怨妹子怎么不找他聊天，网友回复：线下还没见过对方，你的头像是大家都在用的网图，朋友圈还是三天可见，你要对方喜欢你什么，喜欢上你几个字的微信昵称吗？</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">固然是个搞笑的段子，但在数字世界中主动暴露一些自己的信息，留一下痕，在任何新朋友的时候，对方也可以翻一下你的留痕，快速找到共同的话题。找工作也如此，如果在简历中加上自己和这个岗位相关的作品，会大大增加录取的概率。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">有一个奇特的想法：在公共网络空间上我们进行交流时，其实是和对方在过去某个时间点的ta进行的交流。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">就像我现在想要探讨一个问题，但是发现周围没有朋友可以沟通， 网上的相关信息也不多，那我就在当下的时间戳上留下自己的想法好了，未来可能会有人回复，你就会穿越到写下那句话的状态。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 6px;height: 6px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__4"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="width: 3em;border-top: 2px solid rgb(127, 161, 191);display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;padding-left: 5px;padding-right: 5px;font-size: 23px;min-width: 1.2em !important;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">03</p></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 3em;border-top: 2px solid rgb(127, 161, 191);display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="width: 6px;height: 6px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="width: 6px; height: 6px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; border-radius: 100%; background-color: rgb(127, 161, 191); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__5"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">鉴于还未有直接通过脑机装置让人们一键快速了解对方，我们只能从已存在的客观事物来对一个人一件事生成认知。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">况且自己可以选择性暴露自己的信息，你可以在网络上建造一个虚假的自我，很多的PUA讲师强调的第一步就是要做好朋友圈建设。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">但如果想要真心交些朋友，好好沟通一件事，还是不要费力维持一个虚假的形象比较好。</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section>