https://new.cupaobaidou.com/tag/%E8%B4%A3%E4%BB%BB/Recent content in 责任 on 醋泡白豆Hugozh-CNWed, 24 Jan 2024 19:11:00 +0800https://new.cupaobaidou.com/archives/628/Wed, 15 Dec 2021 22:22:00 +0800https://new.cupaobaidou.com/archives/628/<section style="line-height: 2; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-align: justify; visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">Take the responsibility and plan your day that you would like to have.</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></strong></p></section><section style="text-align: center; justify-content: center; margin: 10px 0%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); padding: 0px 0px 6px; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); padding: 0px 0px 6px; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__0"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(255, 214, 88); border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(62, 62, 62); border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; padding: 5px 15px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us" data-style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(255, 214, 88); border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(62, 62, 62); border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; padding: 5px 15px; box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__1"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">责任<br style="visibility: visible;"></p></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">今年才真正认识到这样一件事情——自己是要对发生在自己身上大部分的事情要负责的。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">龙虾教授作为西方的“学术网红”，网络上对他的评价比较极端，有的人说他爆红的背后都是漏洞和话术，把他塑造成了一个投机取巧的诡辩者。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">而另一个部分的人则爱他爱到不行。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">我是后者。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">他是加拿大的一名心理学教授，之前做过很多份工作，比如医生、 加油站的工人，最后回到学校拿到学位之后开始在大学任教。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">前几年因为上传自己演讲和上课的视频到油管爆红，我也从他的这些视频知道他的。不同于很理性的心理学讲师，他的视频有着极大的感染力，张口就说个不停的他看起来非常“情绪化”。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">他指责现在的人的无能和软弱，指责他们拥抱虚无主义和后现代主义的邪恶腐蚀，指责他们在戏谑中逃避掉自己的责任。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">我能记得他说过的印象最深刻的话是：</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></p></section><section style="margin: 10px 0%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(241, 242, 249); border-left: 3px solid rgb(255, 72, 18); border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; padding: 19px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" data-style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(241, 242, 249); border-left: 3px solid rgb(255, 72, 18); border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; padding: 19px; box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__2"><section style="margin: 0px 0%; text-align: center; justify-content: center; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="color: rgb(79, 79, 79); text-align: justify; font-size: 14px; line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1px; padding: 0px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;">你要成为你父亲葬礼上最坚强的人。</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">每每听到视频中的这一段的时候都会有一种极强的临在感，身体都一震。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">爆火之后，各种报道都来了， 西方的主流媒体对把他划到“右派”中，认为他是父权社会的代表，沙文保守主义的代言人。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">“批判”要比建设容易得多，现在我们主流的年轻人好像要解构一切，用所谓的标新立异和反反叛来标榜自己，吐槽一切，拥抱虚无主义。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p></section><section style="text-align: center;justify-content: center;margin: 10px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;height: auto;margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: right;margin: 0px 0%;justify-content: flex-end;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 10px;height: 10px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 117px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(119, 95, 255);box-sizing: border-box;" data-style="display: inline-block; 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border-radius: 117px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); background-color: rgb(247, 206, 42); box-sizing: border-box;" class="js_darkmode__4"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">他号召年轻人承担起自己的责任，建立亲密关系，设定目标并为自己的事业努力。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_img_placeholder wx_img_placeholder" data-ratio="0.1275328" data-type="png" data-w="839" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 657px !important; height: 83.789px !important;" data-original-style="vertical-align: middle;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;" data-index="1" src="https://new.cupaobaidou.com/usr/uploads/2024/01/453409115.png" _width="677px" crossorigin="anonymous" alt="Image"></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">在他看来，人的存在就是痛苦的，life is about suffering. 放任自己，日子是不会自己好起来的，要承担起自己的责任。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">制定一个计划，如果今天不完成特定的事情生活就会变得更糟糕，那你就要制定一个包含这些事情的计划。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">去面对残酷的现实。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">不要拥抱迷茫和绝望，承担责任，走上探索之路。</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section>